The Turn Around.

Life has it's up's and it's downs now doubt about it. We all have those times where we just feel like the world has just turned it's back on us. Like we feel like no one in the world will understand what we are going through. Well,tonight I had one of those night where I felt like the world someone just wanted me to have a bad day,or so I thought.

Like I said we all have those bad days,sometimes you just can not help it.But why is it that until recently I find myself to come into contact with more and more people that just well,for the better lack of words who's attitude "Suck". I can understand maby having one day that you just want to be left alone. Trust me I have had those days,as we all have,but all the time come on now. I mean me give me a brake. It's like some one has rained on there parade and the sun is not coming out anytime soon.

I have the best example for this post today. Something that I have been wanting to share with someone and no one will listen so I am just writing."That's what's a blog is for,right".

Anyways, today I found myself with a similar situation. Today when at work I had to come into contact with a person that was just stubborn. She was just one of these people where nothing pleased her,and instead of trying to work out her problems like an adult she decided to take it out on everyone else. When she tried to take out her problems out on me I just decided that after she got done yelling at me for what ever she wanted to yell at me about, I was not going to let her " Rain on my parade".

I was not going to let this lady bring my day down,not after I was having a GREAT,GREAT day. Actually,instead of getting mad like I wanted to do, I decided to do just the opposite,I was going to Kill her with kindness. To make a long story short,it was making this lady more upset because I was being kind to her and I wasn't going to let her bring me down.

That what we all need to do when we know that someone is trying to make us mad,or when we are in a difficult situation. We need to kill them with kindness. Don't let some one bring you or anyone else down just because they are having a bad day. Instead turn it around and just tell your self that you are going to have a good day no matter what even if you feel like telling someone to just go jump off a Cliff like I wanted too.

The Brain Test.

The other day I was telling you all about my place of work and how they were making me get rid of my favorite ear rings. Well today I am glad to say that I have found a solution and a way around that very problem.

See when people tell me that I can't wear something or I can't do something I try not to get mad I get smart. I put my brain to the test and see what I can come up with. So my place of work said that I could not wear my ear rings even know they are my very favourite and good luck charms.

So in my wisdom of knowledge I put my brain to the test. I thought all night try to figure out ways that I could still have my ear rings close to me and not have to take them off. Then the answer became so obvious to me. It was clear. I would shorten them.(Ok,well not me but a friend of mying did).

So this is what I am saying. If you have a problem like I did even a simple or a more serious problem stop and think. Some times the answers can be right under neath our noses and because we are so afraid of what is to come we sometimes miss it. My advice, take the time to stop and think.

The Funny Thing Is.

Today A funny thing happen to me while I was at work. When people are at work we tend to just look at the clock a million times a day to see if the day is gone yet.Well today It's like time flew by. Literally. Now I know that people say that time goes by so quickly but today it seemed that it really did.

Today it was like I looked at the and it can be one time and then I look at it again a couple minutes later and it can be a couple hours later. Sometimes the day feels like it is never going to end but today it really seemed like I just closed my eyes and the day was over.

So why is it that some days can last forever and then other days it seems like it just goes by in the blink of an eye. I don't mind day that last forever,but my sometimes just like everyone else in the world it's nice to have day that go by in the blink of an eye.

Sometimes I just don't understand about the days. I love everyday don't get me wrong but,I just can't figure out why today seemed so quick. To tell you the truth it was kind of nice. Now I have got to see what tomorrow brings me.

No Question Ask.

Remember when you were little and you needed money when you would be out at a store or at a toy store or something like that. Who would be the first people you would go too? Well of course it would be your mother and father or for me it would be my grandparents.

We all remember those days.You would see something in a store window and just have to have it no matter what it was. I know that I am guilty of that. I was always asking my grandparents if I could have some money to buy a toy or something like that.Of course they would say yes maby not all the time, but most of the time they would give me just a little money to buy what I wanted. Now that I am grown up I am so glad that I don't have to ask for money from my grandparents. I know that they would give it to me in a heart beat but I have a job now and I am an adult so I need to act like it and earn my own money.

Now that I have a job,I can make a living for me and my boyfriend and have a life of my own. Now when I see something in a store or in a magazine I can actually buy it without having to ask for money. I like have some cash of my own. It makes me feel good. It lets me know that I have job and that I have really worked hard for it.

Now that I have my own money I can finally start helping my grandparents out when they need it and pay them back for everything that they have done for me when I was younger and continue to do for me now. Having your own money is great.It should make you feel like you accomplished something. You should feel pound of your self's and know that you have worked hard for it no matter what your job may be.