Strong Willed Women.

I have always thought of my self as a strong women. With everything that I have gone through I have to say I really always have been strong, and I guess the reason that I am so strong is because I have been brought up too be.

In general I think all women are strong. If we look back on it(Sorry,I am a history nut) we have had so many strong willed women. Women,really have had to fight and be strong for a lot of things. Now,please don't miss interpret me I am not saying that men have had it easy,I am just saying that women tend to have to fight more for what we want and I really and not sure why.

That's one question that we got ask the other day in my class. So why is it that women always have to fight harder for the things that we want in life then men? Is it because we are not as strong, HECK NO. We are head strong. So what's the answer?

It's one of those questions that have stuck with me for a while so I just decided to blog about it,hoping that someone will give me some opinions on this.

Anyway that you look at it,all women are very strong. It doesn't matter weather others think you are or not it just matter what you think of yourself and if you see yourself as strong. So,I say lets get out there and show the world who is boss.

One Simple Word.

They say one simple word can't make a difference to someone. Well I know different and it's something that I have experienced first hand.

See,I was ONE of those people that always questioned how just one simple word could make a difference in someones life. Then I WAS one of those people that got to experience that and it made all the difference in the world for me,because I knew that someone cared enough about me and it made me realize how much I am not alone.

Honestly,we all just need someone to give us a kind word from time to time,or for someone to tell us that it's ok,or for someone to believe in us. It's weird for me because I really never hear someone just giving someone a kind word,when they really need it the most,and we really should.

It's just like the other day,I was really stressed for school,and work and,about my friends,and my family and how I really never get to see them except for holidays because I am so busy. I was just so upset and really the only thing I knew to do was to just cry. So that's exactly what I did until my boyfriend came home. It's amazing to me because the only thing he did was took my hands and held them,and just looked at me and whispered " It's ok" . Then I just put my head on his shoulder and finished crying and I felt so much better.

So you see someone saying just One or two simple words can make all the difference in the world to a person. Sometimes you will know it right off hand,and sometimes you may not know it till later but,it does make a difference.

So,the next time you see a person having a bad day,or someone that is really stressed,do yourself and them a favor and just give them a kind word or even a few kind words and watch that persons face just light up.It helped me when someone gave me a kind word so I know it can help someone else.

In My Own Little World.

Ok, so as of lately it's like I have been in some strange land . Now usually I am not in this strange land,but this week it has been especially bad. I have been so distracted and just like well in la la land if you want to say that.

Honestly I'm not sure why I have been out of it. I mean I have not been under any stress as of lately or anything like that so why must I just journey off to la la land?

Now don't get me wrong it's not like it is a bad place. In fact sometimes it's my home away from home. Sometimes it's the place where I go to when I am really stressed from school or work. So as you can see it's not such a bad place at all. In fact I really think everyone should have a little dream place to call their own. My little dream place is called La La Land and I love it and own it.

The only thing that I don't like about it,is when I got to my little world and it's the wrong time to go,like in the middle of class or in the middle of work. It's weird but I have been going there lately and I am starting to like it. I don't have any idea why but my mind wants me to go to La La Land so I am along for the ride.

So my thing is this,maby if everyone had a little dream world that they could go to just for them self's ,then maby,just maby we would have a less stress out world. Hey it works so maby it could work for you as well. Give it a shot,I bet you will be glad you did.

A Picture Perfect Scene.

Have you ever looked outside and seen a scene that was just so beautiful and just so amazing that it looked like it should be a portrait? Well I have and this week expically I have been noticing things like that. Actually this week I have been noticing a lot of things and been doing a lot of just looking around.

See,most of the time I am away for school so really all I see around me is buildings and people. When I come home however it's a different story.When I come home I see so much beauty and amazing things. It's things that have always been there but I just have never really token a good look at what is around me.

The things that I see are simple things, like the sun going down after it has rained, or the beautiful trees with the colors in them. Like I said just simple things. But those things to me look like they should be in a painting of some kind with all there beauty.

When I look at a painting I see color and beauty,just like when I look out side that's what I see. It's always amazed me to look out and see such amazing beauty,and too know that's it's always there,we just don't take the time to slow down and see it. So maby that's what we should all do that,just stop for five minutes out of everyday and just take time to look around and see all the amazing things around you. Who knows you might be surprised at what you see.

PS: Thers are some pics that I took. Enjoy

We Weren't Crazy.

I'm sure we have all done something crazy. I remember when I was in high school me and a bunch of my friends just took off too the open road. We have no idea why we just took off and whet off on a road trip but we just did. If I remember right that's how I got my first tattoo but that's a different story.

Anyways,when me and my friends took off we had no place we had to be. I still ask them today why we just decided to take off and the best answer I can come up with is we were young and we could.

See back then me and my friends were a lot of things and yes we did a lot of dumb things. We were the ones who would say something if things was not right, or the ones who would just take off out of the blue just to do it. We were the talkers and the note passers in class,and the cell phone talkers who would talk and txt while walking down the street. So me and my friends did a lot of things did a lot of things but if there is one thing I can say it's that were weren't crazy.

We may have been all those things but like I said differently not crazy. See I think sometimes we all need to do something a little nuts. It could be when we are in school like I did or even now .I think the reason we all need to do something a little nuts is because if we don't then we don't ever experience life. In my opinion that's the way we figure out life is from the things that we do. So go and do something a little nuts,just remember you can do something nuts and still not be crazy.

The Girl Behind The Mask.

Who is that girl behind the mask? Sounds like a pretty simple question,but for me it's not quite that simple. See, I have always felt like every since I was little,that I have had too hide behind this mask.

A lot of time I feel like I would just like to rip off the mask but how,is the question? I feel like there is a great person behind this mask but yet I can't let come off. It's like it's glued on or permeatly on my face.

I think the thing that I am afraid of is when I do take off my mask that I will be hurt,not physically but mentally. Although I have took en off my mask some and have been working on it it's still not all the way off. I don't want to take it off and be hurt. I feel like people say they know me on the inside,but they have no idea what I am or who I am on the inside.

So how do I get my mask off? Should I take it off and take the chance of getting hurt,or should I just leave it on and not take that chance? There is a great person underneath but I'm just scared. The plain hard truth I'm scared and I'm not afraid to admit it. I have been hurt before and had people go away from me before and I just don't want to be that way again.

So,yes I may have to lock away the true me and yes maby people are not seeing the true me,but this girl behind the mask is one that is not going to have hurt, this girl is going to be safe. I would love to show this girl. Maby one day,but for now this is just me, The Girl Behind The Mask.