Hand In Hand

Friends are great to have. They are there when we need someone to talk to,and to hang out with,they are there when you need someone to lean on and to have a shoulder to cry on. I know this because I have friends who are like this. Old ones and new ones.

Some of my friends I have been friends with for years. We have been through thick and thin together. Then I have other friends that I have only know for a short while but that I am just as close to as if they we hate known each other for years.

The good thing about my friends are that I know that I can always count on them when times are tough. that's a sign of a good friend. When you know that you can always lean of them for guidance.

So my advice to you all is . If you have any kind of friend keep them. Good friends are hard to come by. Short,Simple And to the point.

Life's Puzzle Piece.

If it is something that I have always been taught it's that life is a chain. A chain of lesson's or just a chain of events. For me it's always been a chain of events as I am sure it has for many of you out there.

Think about it. With everything that you have go in life from growing up,to going to elementary school then as soon as you know it graduating from high school,to even going to college it's no wounder that life is like a chain.

For me,I feel like life is passing me by so fast. I mean it feels like I just graduated from high school when In reality I graduated a couple of years ago. For heaven sakes,I am getting ready to graduate from college. How crazy is that.

I just feel like life is passing me by so quickly. I mean I go to classes ever day and go to work and visit my family on the holidays, and try to get everything I need to get done that day,and it just seems like the day is over before it even begins.

The thing that I am trying to get across is that life is like a puzzle. All the piece's may not fit right now but once you get to them they will fit perfectly. Try not no let life rush by you. Instead take the time to stop and smell the cool Fall air.

Still Changing

Have you ever felt like the world was just spinning too fast? Like the world is circling to fast and you don't know how to make it stop. Lately I just feel like I have had so many changes going on in my life and I am still not done with the changes.

I know,I know I have already did a post about changes,but if I don't get what I am feeling off my chest I am just going to be sick(Really). I told you all in a few of my post that I hate change. I have tried to get better at it but nothing seems to be making it better. With Christmas coming and everything coming I feel like there is ten million changes going on right now,that frankly I just don't know what to think about or do about.

I am not sure weather it's a good thing or a bad thing but one this is for sure I just don't like them. It's everything from family to friends to just simple things like even deciding weather or not I should go out to eat with friends from work to eat Christmas dinner.

I know what your thinking. Your probably thinking that,there is nothing to really worry about and that it's all going to ok. Man how I wish I could think that way. I try I really do but for some reason I just hate change. Is it just me,or does anyone else hate change just as much as I do? What is wrong with me? Why do I despise it so much? I just want to once change something in my life and not feel guilt over it for once in my life. Help. That really all I can say. Help.

The Lucky One

Growing up I had a great child hood. I had family that was always around me and friends that would be there whenever I needed them. For me I knew that I could go to my family and tell them anything. I could also go to my friends and tell them whatever I wanted to tell them,and I knew that it would stay between us and not go to anybody else.

I maby didn't know then that when my family or friends would get after me for something it would be to teach me a life lesson years later. Sometimes my family would get after me when I would run at into the road was I was younger. I didn't think that it was fun when they got at me when I was younger, but now I realize that it was because they were afraid that I was going to get hit. Now I am thinking them for getting after me for that. Or when I would go out with my friends and sometimes my head would get to big, like I am sure it does for everybody sometimes. My friends would tell me sometimes that I need to get my head out of the clouds and come back down to earth. I really needed to hear that sometimes. (As do we all sometimes)

I think what I am trying to get at is this, I grew up luck. I sometimes maby thought when I was younger that I didn't because maby I didn't get all the things that I wanted or I got into trouble once in a while,but I was one of the lucky ones. I realize now that the reason that I was so luck is because of everybody always being close to me, and I had a roof over my head(always) and clothes on my back and there was always food on the table. Now that I am older I realize that not everybody in this world has this. I see it on the news all the time. I see men, women, kids,even pets homeless. They don't have the thing me and you have. Sometimes they go days without the things that me and you take for granted sometimes. Like running water, or clean clothes, food, home,and there is times that when I am out I hear people complaining about the simple things. So really what I am trying to tell people is don't take your life for granted . Be thankful for what you have and be thankful for you family and friends. And try not to sweat the small things in life. I know that I think god each and everyday for what I have and pray for the ones that don't have anything.