It's Time For A Change.

I think it's time for another change. Lately I feel like I have been headed in this weird direction that life wants to take me,and honestly I think it might be a good idea.

Since I am on my own now,and have a great career on my hands maby it is time for another change in my life. Who knows maby it's nothing major that I am going to change or maby it is,what ever it is I am sure that It will be so great to see.

I think we all get like this sometimes or at least once in our lives,where we feel like we are just ready for that next step in life,and that next big move. It's kind of great feeling knowing that you have so much more in life than what we see right now.

I know in my life there is so much more up the road,and although I would never rush life,I just can't wait to see what is waiting for me,weather that would be getting married(which I hope very soon for),or a family or what whatever it may be it will be great.

Honestly I do not ever know what I am just now having these thoughts now,I think since I moved out and graduated college and got my very own place, it's only fitting that I think about something like this.

Well, who knows all I know is there is a great world out there,with room to grow and be free and express ourselves and it's only a matter to something changes.

The Little Moments.

Recently there has been things going on my life that well for the better lack of words,suck. Some good and some bad,not horrible though(thank GOD). We all go through them and we all have our times where we feel like we want to tell the world to stop and stay until you catch your breath.. To me it's like a world wind of emotions sometimes.

What I have realized through the help of my family and friends though(thank God For them,and my boyfriend) is that I shouldn't let the big things get to me. The little things around me is what really matters. I am talking about the little things in life. The little moments,lets call them.

These are the moments where you can look back and remember what great times you and what great times you will have. Through all the stress and emotion things that I have going on right now,the one thing that keeps me going is the little moments.What sweet moments these are and will be through the years.

See this is the thing,sure you will have days where you feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders, but once you get through them you will come to realize the bigger picture which are the little moments. Those are the ones that count. The once that should only really matter. To me the little moments are the ones that I have with my friends and family and with my boyfriend and the ones that I get to spend writing my blog post of course. Simple I know,but the little moments don't have to be anything big they just have to be what you believe are the most important thing in your life right now.

Curiosity Killed The Cat.

Have you ever heard the expression "Curiosity Killed The Cat? Well I have and that expression has really been close to me this week. See, I told you all the last couple of post that I have a new job. Now don't get me wrong it is going fine and everything, but I always feel like I am asking way to may questions.

I don't want the people that I work with thinking that I don't know what I am doing,but I really don't know what I am doing. I know that the first couple of days are hard in a new job but for me they have been extra hard. I bet you I have had to ask at lest ten million questions.

See I am afraid that if I ask to many questions while I am working, than my co -workers will look down on me and that is something that I don't want to happen. I really like this job and as I have said before,it is a new start and a new beginning for me but, I just don't want to look dumb and ask too many questions.

The only thing that is really making me sure that I am doing right by asking questions is what one of my boss's said to me last night. She said the "The only stupid questions are the ones that are not ask". That actually made me feel a little better and it made me feel more confident in my self.

I hope that I am doing right, I believe that I am by asking so many questions. I can't help that I am so curios,but I am,I have always been since I was just a little thing. I wounder about everything. Is that a bad thing or and good thing? Am I doing right by second guessing my self? And should I be really asking all these questions? I just need someone to assure me that I am doing the right thing. I really wish that someone could answer these questions for me, I really need them answered. And if anybody has any advice for me I could really use it right about now.

Two Sides To Ever Story.

This morning I woke to the sound of my phone ringing. I got a phone call from a friend who I have been friends with for so many years. When I answered the phone it was her. She was very mad and upset, and for some reason I am the one that people come to when they are upset and mad, which I feel very honored about. She was up set because she had a fight with another friend of hers and she just did not know what to do about it. She was saying that basically her side was right and not her friends. I simply told her that there is two sides to every story and even if she did not want to, she needed to call her friend to try and work things out and listen to her side of things instead of just thinking that her side is the right side. Eventually they worked things out.

There is always two sides to every story. It doesn't matter what the situation may me, there is always another side to everything. That is just a life lesson right there. It was tough to me when I was younger, and it is a piece of information that I will pass on to my kids.

In my friends case, she was just thinking that her side was the only side, when indeed that was not the case at all. When you get into cases like my friend did you have got to listen to the other person's side of the story as well. Not only can that help you figure out a solution to the problem, but that can also help you along the way in life( which I have learned, a lot about).

I believe that the faster people realize that there is two sides to every story the faster it helps people out. You can not always be right all the time, no matter how much we might like to think so sometimes. There is times that we all have to be wrong ,which works out for the best sometimes. So the next time that you are in a tough spot with someone of something, just remember to listen to what the other person has to say, and that there is always another side of the story.