It's Just A Number.

Why are people so obsessed with numbers. Not just any number's,I am talking about the dreaded number of age. I really don't know why people are obsessed with age. I just think that age is just a number.

Why do people fear getting older? Shouldn't we be celebrating getting older. It's another year that we are getting not only smarter,but wiser.

If you really think about it good and hard I bet you will feel the same way. Getting older has it's good parts too. Think about it. When you are older you have more freedom than when you were younger, you can do what you please,when you please and not have to worry about making anybody mad,or upset,and you have more knowledge of what is not only going on in the world but what is going on in your life.

So you see getting older is not so bad,you have your good parts about it as well as your bad,just like you do with everything in life. Don't hate your age, and instead celebrate it. Party it up. Shout it out,don't hide it.Remember you are only as old as you feel.

Rule's To Live By.

In life there are rule that we have to live by. It could be just regular everyday rules like traffic rules or even home rules. What ever the case may be we must follow them to not only be a good person,but also so we don't get into trouble. But what about rules for life? We all have different rules for life either that we have been taught or that we live by. So with this post I am going to share with you all my rules for life that I have been taught and live by.

1.) Always respect your elders. It always shocks me how people don't respect their elders,and we should remember everyone get older.

2.) Treat people how you want to be treated. If we want respect you have to show respect. So be nice. Really.

.3)Always take responsibility for your actions. Remember you chose what you do in life nobody else makes those decisions.

4.)ALWAYS,ALWAYS love your family. You may disagree with them at times but your still a family no matter so respect and love one another.

5.) Help out when ever you can. I don't just me at home but in the world it's self. We have so much that could be done and just isn't so help out your community when you can. Trust me,you will feel a lot better when you get the chance.

6.)Love your pets. This is a big one for me because I am a friend to all animals. Remember animals are a living breathing things as well. Just like people they need love and attention as well,so for GOD SAKES, PLEASE treat them right and Love them.

7.)Be proper. You should always remember to say "Thank You" and "Your Welcome" to people. It just shows your a nice person.

8.) Stay close to your friends. Just think to your self that you became friends for some reason so hang on to them anyway possible.

9.) Be thankful. Instead of crying about everything you don't have be thankful for the things you do have. Remember that there are people worse off than you are so be thankful and respectful for what you have and thank god you do have what you have.

10.) The most important rule. LOVE your self. Even if it's ten minutes out of the day take time to do something for your self. If you don't do that every once in a while you will just scream so take time out and love your self. Remember your important as well.

Those are my ten rules for life what yours?

Think Before You Speck.

Have you ever been told to "think before you speck" well I have and especially when I was younger. I use to always get told to "think before I speck" and not be rude to people. It was one of the main rules of my household and my life. It's a great rule to learn and have under your belt.

So what happens when you come into contact with someone that hasn't learned that rule yet,even thought it should already be implanted into their brain. The reason that I am even bringing up this subject is because today,I had someone tell me something that is really none of their business.

If I said it once I have said it twice,I hate for people to pertend like they know me when they really don't or try to get into my life. I don't mind if people ask me questions about my life,but don't keep on and on because if you do I will eventually just shut you out. Sometimes,I feel like people don't think about what they say before they say it and we all really should.

I have learned that what some people find funny is not funny to others,in fact it is just plain out hurtful. The person that said something about me today never thinks before she speaks,which is no surprise. In fact she is just a plain out well,ass. I just think she needs to learn to think before she opens up her trap. Anyways,I don't even care what she thinks of me. If she doesn't like me well here's an idea stay to yourself. I really don't care if she like me or not.

One word of advice,always think before you speck.

The Hospital Worries.

Today has been kind of a crazy day as I knew it would be. See today, I had to go to the hospital with my family because my grandfather was in there. This time it was not to bad, but still very difficult for me to handle.

Today he had a pacemaker put in to help his heart. See he has had a rough time with in the last few mounts with everything and they said that this would help him by having one. Still, when I was in there waiting for him with my family to get done with surgery, it still made me worried.

I don't very good when it comes to seeing people sick and hurt. There is something inside of me that just can't handle it. Today was no exception. Even know it was a rather very simple operation it was still very hard for him to recover. He is only going to be in there over night but still, having to recover from something like that is just scary.

When I was in the waiting room I couldn't help but to think of everything that could be going on inside that operating room. I didn't want to think that anything bad was going on but you never know. I tried to stay positive anyway I could. Sometimes it is all you can do to think about what is going on when you are waiting for someone to get out of surgery.

The only reason that I did not go insane today is because I had my family around me and I knew he was in good hands,which made it easier on us. I honestly think that the worst part of going into the hospital or even a doctors office,is when you have to wait. Because think about it,when you are waiting to see someone who is at the hospital or at the doctors than you have all that time to just sit and think about what is happing and to me that is the worst feeling in the world.

Well maby I am just being stupid I mean I just called him and he was fine but it still scares me that he is in there. Is that stupid of me to have this fear?I mean is that normal or does everyone have this fear? Anyways I am just going to stay positive and think good thoughts, and when he comes home tomorrow I will hug him and all my worries will go away.

A Blank Canvas.

My whole life I have always had just one look. I have never changed my hair color,or put on a lot of make-up or changed the way I dress just because of what someone says to me. I like the way the way I look.

The other day at work,I asked my friends if they had to describe me what would they say? I have a variety of friends with all different looks,so I had no idea of what they would say. Some said that I was just me(I am not sure what that means,but that's what they said),and the others I was surprised at what they said. Some said that I was a blank canvas. I didn't know weather to be insulted or to be happy. I mean,what does that mean?

That night, I went home and thought about what my co-workers had said. Blank canvas, really? Out of millions of words and they chose those, why? The more I thought about it though,the more I understood it. See, when I go out I make sure I look cute,and put on a little bit of make-up and just go out as me,but when some people go out they put on clothes that show off way to much skin and just cake on that make-up to where it looks so thick and nasty and put their hair up in weird ways just because their friends are doing it or because someone said to look that way. Me I don't care what anybody says, If people don't like the way I look who cares.

So I guess in a way my friends were right,I am a blank canvas. With me what you see is what you get,no more,no less. If you don't like the way I look here's an idea don't look that will solve the problem. I don't know why people try to impress others by the way they look. We should be doing that with our minds not our bodies(I am old fashion,sorry). I am not saying that I don't like to look good for college or my boyfriend or when I go out somewhere,but I have my look.

I am not going to change for anybody. As far as putting on make-up I don't mind putting on a little in the mornings but I am not going to cake it on. I go for a more natural look which suits me just fine. And for my hair, I don't mind when people color their hair or style,because I style mying I don't color but I do style, but don't go over board with it. Color and style your hair once and just let it be.

Like I said, I like the way I look, I'm happy with who I am inside and out and so should everyone else. We all have our own looks,but that is what makes us so great is because we are all so different and no one looks the same to each other. So just be happy with your looks and don't try to be something that you aren't . So all in all I guess it is not so bad being a blank canvas,just as long as I can be who I want to be and no one else,just plan old me.

The Job At Hand.

There are a lot of jobs out there right now. In this world of ours, we have jobs where people can become doctor's or lawyers , business people, actor's or actresses, singers, food workers,and many more things.

I mean there is such a wild variety of things out there, that it is just simply amazing. I can't tell you how many times that I have been at work or helped out someone when I have been at work that needed help and I have heard those two simple words "Thank You" or heard someone say things like " Thank you for all you do", which is always good to here from time to time.

I mean who doesn't love a solid "thank you for what you do" every once in a while. For me it is someone says that to me it makes my day go so much better and the day go by so much smoother, but I believe that sometimes we forget about the people that do some of the things that I know that I could not do.

I am talking about people like the soldiers that fight for our freedom,or the firemen that help protect us from fires,and what about even the people that feed us when we don't have time to cook or don't have time to sit down and eat with our families. Sometimes, I feel like we forget about the people that do some of these things. I mean like I said we have a world where there is just so many opportunities to do things and yet I still feel like we forget the people that maby may not be so high up in the ladder but yet work just as hard and just as many hours as those of us who are a little hire up in the ladder like doctors, or cops or ect.

Sometimes I feel like people look down on other people who are fast food workers or things like that, and we shouldn't. I mean think about, if it would not be for people like fire fighters or cops or soldiers or yes even the fast food workers than we would not have the things that have today. We wouldn't have all this freedom and we wouldn't have people that protect us every day, and if it wouldn't be for the workers who fix food than who would feed the hunger people who do go to work and work hard everyday, who would feed their family's.

All I am saying is this, it doesn't matter what kind of job that you have. It could be the simplest job in the world, what does matter is that at the end of the day, you are proud of the job that you have and proud of what others have done. Also, never look down on people,even if they have a job that may not be the greatest,at least it's a job and you are making money to support your self and your family. As long as you like your job, it shouldn't matter what anybody else thinks, it should just matter what you think.

That and be thankful that there is people out there that is willing to do these dangerous jobs and willing to work. Just appreciate the people that do the jobs that no body even thinks about sometimes and always remember to say think you every times someone helps you,because you never know what one little "Thank You" can do to someones day.

The Crazy Product World.

There are so many new and exciting products out now days. Actually, you basically have a product to help you with everything. You have products out now that help you with getting dressed, or with cooking or talking on you cell phone, or even with your pets, ect. So I have been asking my self, Is our world really getting that lazy?

Think about it, with these new inventions all around us, all we really have to do is just sit and let the inventions take care of it the rest . I really hope that we are not getting this lazy, because if we are than this world has got a lot to worry about. It's just like the other day, I got this book in the mail. Yeah you know the ones I am specking of. The ones that are just filled with crap and useless junk that really no ones needs. Anyways, I was looking in one of those books when I came across an invention that just made me giggle. It was basically a stick to help people put their shoes on. It just made me laugh so hard, because I am sitting there thinking,"WOW, what has the world come to now days if people can't even put on their on shoes".

My second question is, where in the world do people come up with these silly things? I mean do these inventors just sit at home and think to them self's" I think that I am going to make something today that just makes people more lazy".

Why do we have to have all these new things? I mean, why can't we just do things the old fashion way like we use to. Now, please don't get me wrong, I am not saying that every new invention is bad. I have seen some things that would be good to have, but come one do we really need things like"The Potty Patch" for you animals to go potty in your house. Come on now, I mean really, here's an idea take your animal out side to go potty. I just feel like we really do not need all these things. Instead we need to go back, to doing things the old fashion way. We don't need to change all these things in life.

We don't need a lazy world, really we don't. What we need is a world that is filled with people that have a lot energy and are full of life. If we keep making up these silly inventions, than we are all going to become lazy. So I have one thing to say to these inventors" STOP Making These Things, No body wants them". Maby it's just me that feels this way. I hope not.

Art The Ultimate Life Story.

Have you ever noticed when you look at a piece of art, and you know that it tells something about your life. Well that is kinda how I am. I love art,I love any kinda of art. When I was little I even took art classes and went to an art camp. Like I said I love art, I love to look at portraits from Da Vinci or Van Gogh or even Monet. I don't why but every time I look at a portrait I try to see what the artist was feeling at the time when they were doing the painting.

I think that one of the reasons that I like art, is because to me it's everything we do,and it's all around us.What I mean is that art is a way for people to express themselves. It doesn't matter if you do it through dance or painting or acting or it can just be expressed through the way you move your body,but art is all around us. Art to me is when you look outside and see a flower growing or waking up to the sun or even seeing a flag fly outside your window. To me that is art. There are some people, even my friends that have told me that they don't get art like I do.

Sometimes I don't think that people give it enough of a chance, and people should.

Art can be a great thing. It can be so beautiful and so relaxing when you let it be. I really wish that people would give it a chance. It can even tell stories about the artist life if you look at it long enough. It can tell about the hard times that they might have been through or even the happier times that they went through. It can tell you what mood they were in when they painted the portraits just by the colors that they use. Everybody should at least give art a chance because it might surprise you. It might put you to a whole new way of thinking that you didn't think before. Who knows. I know for me it makes me think so much more deeper than I did before and to me that is what makes good art. When it really makes you think and leaves you wondering.

Music The Story Of Our Life's

Have you ever lisiten to a piece of music or even watched a music video and though wow, that was the story of my life. I think everybody at least on time or another has had a song that has been special to them. It could be a song that you danced to at your wedding or a song that was played at prom or even a song that you remember as a kid. Well I know I have heard many songs that have been special to me or that have told a story about one part or another in my life.

There are many different types of music out there that can tell your life story. Music like rock, or county or classic, techno,pop,ect. I know that for me it's music like some pop and country. One of the bands that have music in the pop music genera that tell my life story is "nickleback" I don't know what it is about them, but alot of their music really does tell about some point or another of my life. I think that sign of good music is when it moves you and it brings back a good or a bad time in your life.

Like I said music is everwhere, It's on tv, and on the internet and in your car. It's a great stress relif when you have had a bad day or even a busy day, or happy day,ect. Music can be a great thing, and with so many differnt types out there it is easy to find what you are looking for. My advice to people would be this: When you are by yourself try and lisiten to some music, or go even go through some old records and try to listien to the words of those songs and see if they tell a story about your life or see if you remember a good time or even a bad time in your life. Who know you might be suprised on what you find. You never know,until you try it.